Love: Chance or Choice

While I was cleaning my room, I saw this pile of paper in a corner. I picked up the papers and to my surprise I saw this position paper that I wrote when I was still in high school. The paper is about love. HAHAHAHAHA yes! So typical for a high school student to write something about love. So ladies and gentlemen I present to you the paper that I wrote.

Love: Chance or Choice?

"No one falls in love by choice. It is by CHANCE.

No one stays in love by chance. It is by WORK.

No one falls out of love by chance. It is by CHOICE."

-- Anne Meesriyong

Love grows from the beast to the finest. It is not pious from the start but it slowly reaches higher levels. Bodily attraction is like an appetizer to run the engine of love and then principles and personality come into play to make love more potent. You could fall in love with anyone around and the only difference is that you meet the one you love, sooner enough than the one you could love. Our destiny is programmed or it may seem programmed. 

Many young boys and girls start caring for each other as their marriage contract is signed in the skies, but after a while, breaking up is the only thing that comes up in their minds; the whole thing would be ended until a different case takes place. They will start loving somebody else as if the earlier one never existed, and that is the world we live in.

I think we can define when to fall in love, but we need to be prepared. Scramble to discover a refuge, the time that illustrious bow is prematurely aimed at your heart and then get out of there when you think it is the right time to give your heart away. This shelter can be God, your family, friends, education or work. 

Love is one of the most valuable and cherished feelings in one's life. Love and affection should be used cautiously and under strong self-control. There are two ways of falling in love. The first way, which is mostly admired, is by way of chance. An example of chance is as follows: a man and a woman are introduced to one another and make eye contact. Then a certain feeling bonds the two, forming love, which eventually will lead to an everlasting marriage. The other way to fall in love is by choice. It could be either the parent's choice or one of the couple's choices. Because of this, I feel that love by way of chance has a higher percentage of lasting than does love by choice. 

Love that occurs by opportunity is more frequent and it is not because he or she is pretty or smart rather it is a connection of some sort, like personalities or distinctiveness in common. Affection should be based on what is in the heart and perhaps the brain. The way I see it, falling in love by chance is the most stunning emotion in the world. 

Love by choice, particularly not yours, is an awful way to live a life. It is hard for the one who did not have the choice. If one has to pick their husband or wife it should not depend on their riches, status or their reputation. It should be a cautious choice that will make one contented for the rest of their life. A good instance that my classmates and I could relate to: Daughters ans sons are more often than not married off by their parents through a deal at the ages of twelve and thirteen. They grow up knowing who they are going to marry for seven or eight years having no say in the matter. They have to discover to feel affection for their companion and I feel it is a miserable way to marry someone and feel for that person. 

I think that love by way of chance is a far better way to feel affection for somebody than by way of preference. I feel that love is the most striking sensation and that all and sundry ought to have a chance to have a feeling of true love. 

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HAHAHA I could not stop myself from laughing. Where did I get these ideas to write this kind of paper? It must be the hormones.