Happy Being Single

Valentines is just looming around the corner and this is the time for lovers to have the time of their life. It is a special day for them to remember their love for one another and to make sweet talks and gestures that everyone can hear and see. YES! It is the day that the SINGLES population of the country is reminded that indeed we are single. But don't worry. Being single does not make you sad on this day. We can still find sources of happiness and make this day special.

Being single gives you a whole lot of freedom! You are free to do anything and you can even fool around or just have fun in anyway possible. You don't have to consult a partner to ask if you can do this or you don't have someone who will nag at you for doing such things. You don't feel suffocated and you can move around freely. Lack of freedom and some demands of the partner causes some problems in the relationship of couples. 

Being single does not necessarily mean that no one in this world likes you or loves you. You still have your friends. They are always there to help you in times of problems and they are always there to protect you and always be by your side. You don't need a single knight in shining armor or anything of such because you have tons of friends that will take revenge if someone hurts you.

Life is wonderful so there is no need to feel sad on Valentines day. Though, we are constantly reminded that we are indeed single, we can still confidently say that BEING SINGLE DOES NOT MAKE YOU FEEL SAD OR MISERABLE. We just chose to be single because life is an adventure that is best taken alone for you to learn more about it and to help you search for yourself in times of troubles or we just haven't found the person that we are looking for or the person that we are looking for haven't found us yet. S.A.D. (Singles Awareness Day) is definitely not sad. It is our time to have the best time of our lives, to enjoy life while we are still single and with less responsibilities. 

Here is a song that I feel like playing on Valentines Day. It is an original song by Joseph Vincent. The song is entitled "S.A.D. (Single Awareness Day) 

Hindi Ko Maintindihan

Minsan may mga bagay na nagtuturo sa atin ng mga dapat matutunan sa buhay. Minsan nasasaktan tayo para malaman natin na ang mundo ay hindi lang puro saya. Minsan may mga bagay na masaya, nakakaiyak o minsan mapapatawa o kaya naman mapapatulala ka na lang ng hindi mo namamalayan. Ang hindi ko lang maintindihan ay yung mga taong sa isang bagay na kanilang pinagdaanan ay sobrang dami nilang natutunan na para bang kung ano ang kanilang sinasabi ay makatotohanan o kaya naman minsan ang dating ay sobrang expert na nila doon sa bagay na iyon. 

Let us take love for example. 

Hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit yung mga taong nagmahal at minsan ng nasaktan kung makapagpayo ay wagas lang talaga! Para bang sila ay isang philosopher na nabuhay na ng matagal na panahon at napakarami ng napagdaanan. Hindi naman sa lahat ng bagay pare-parehas ang nangyayari sa buhay pag-ibig ng isang tao, pero nakakabaliw lang talaga sila kung makapayo na

 "gawin mo 'to", 

"'wag mong gawin yan!",

 "oo tama pag intayin mo sya"

 at marami pang ibang nakakabaliw na mga kasabihan. 

Kung iisipin mong maigi ha,

nasaktan ka lang nung nagmahal ka ang dami mo nang  natutunan bigla? Wow, kung ganun lang din naman ang mga bagay bagay ay nako ako ay kada araw ay maghahanap ng mamahalin at mananakit sa akin para madami na akong matutunan sa buhay. (hahaha joke lang) 

Minsan nagugulat na lang din ako na "talaga? ganun yun? parang hindi naman." ganan yung naiisip ko kapag may mga taong kung makapag quote ng tungkol sa buhay ay para bang ang tatanda na nila, to think na ka-age ko lang sila! TAE ano bang nangyayari sa mundo? Ako na lang ba ang walang natututunan sa buhay? 

I don't aim to hurt anyone sa post kong ito, pero hindi ko lang talaga mapigilan ang mga bagay na naiisip ko kasi matagal ko ng pinipigil na magsalita pero ngayong nasabi ko na....ok lang hahaha. Sabi nga ng isa kong friend "nasaktan lang, parang naging wise-man na agad". 

Pero hindi ko din naman masisisi ang mga tao kung nagugustuhan nila yung mga payo or sinasabi ng mga ganung tao, kasi nakakarelate sila, siguro iyon yung aking problema, hindi ako makarelate sa kanila kasi malay ko ba dun sa kanilang na-experience na iyon. 

Hay life...makahanap na tlaga na mananakit sa akin ng may matutunan naman ako! HAHAHAHA oh well malay natin maging super wise ako at marami na akong maipapayo na tungkol sa buhay. Teeeheee

at eto na lang ang masasabi ko sa inyo....

you better run, faster than my bullet :)